Saturday, June 18, 2005

Counting Days

We’re drawing near the end. As I write this, it is Saturday morning, 18 June 2005. We don’t have our plane tickets yet (the school is getting them for us), but we should be flying out on or somewhere around 1 July.

At this point, Faith and I are having mixed feelings. On the one hand, we are so excited to be coming home. We have been away for almost one year—away from our families, our friends, our familiar landscapes, and our country.

On the other hand, we are also sad to be leaving. We have lived here long enough for Egypt to feel like home. When we first came here, we would step outside or look out the window or just sit at our dining room table and say, “wow—we’re in Egypt!” But now, this is just one of many places we have lived in and become attached to.

We are also, of course, thinking of the friends we will be leaving, our roomy apartment, our students—and the fact that you can have pretty much everything (from the grocery store, the pharmacy, etc.) delivered to your home!

We also wonder how we will survive without a maid coming in once a week to clean for us. ;-)

I am also saddened by the thought of not being here to observe more closely the changes Egypt will be experiencing over the next 12 months. The government bussing in thugs to beat people up and sexually assault women who were protesting during the recent referendum on changes to the Egyptian Constitution was not inspiring, to say the least, but the process of reform has probably already acquired a life of its own. There are forces at work in Egypt and in the world that even President Mubarak cannot control, and change (as everyone here admits, including the government) is inevitable. My main hope is that change can come with as few people being hurt as possible.

We are very uncertain what we’ll be doing next. But it looks like we WILL have the option of coming back to Egypt. To our surprise, the school is asking us to come back! I think the main reason is that the Kindergarten Annual Show was a huge hit and Faith is getting a lot of the credit for it. We are going to talk to Mrs. Azza, the School Director, next week and discuss some ideas, but we are definitely NOT making a decision until we come back to the US, explore some options there, and think things over.

I, however, am definitely not interested in teaching in a regular classroom setting here, so that might present a bump or two—but I think there may be other possibilities which we’ll look into.

In short, coming back to Egypt will be one option among many. But right now we’re feeling we would only come back if we failed to find a suitable and sustainable alternative in the states. As much as we love Egypt (despite all its flaws), we really would prefer to stay in the US for the time-being.

I guess we’ll see.

Saying Goodbye—and Summer School

Faith and her children now are parted. The day after the KG Annual Show was her last day, and, as predicted long ago, it was an emotional day. When the time finally came for her students to leave, there was a lot of crying all around. Faith loves her children and they love her: the bond she’s forged with them is amazing. I refer to this day as “Mrs. Faith’s Revenge,” because the FIRST day she was with her kids they were crying and wailing and throwing up and even,in one case, scratching her pretty badly. But now, on the LAST day, it was Faith’s turn to cry hard and get THEM all upset.

What I predicted has come true: on that first, awful day I told Faith that “right now they’re other people’s kids—but by the last day they will be YOUR kids.” I’m so happy this came true, though it’s also hard for Faith. She loves them so much that being separated from them hurts. But this is definitely one of the great experiences of her life, and she wouldn't’ change a thing.

Yesterday we met several of Faith’s parents and their children at Chili’s. We had a great time, and when Faith received a big card (see photos) signed by many of her students she got all weepy again and everyone was very touched. It was also very funny to see the kids coming up to her the entire time to tell her things—”I love you so very much, Mrs. Faith,” “I’m finished eating, Mrs. Faith” (they always told her this at school because, once they finished eating, they could go outside to play), “come play with me, Mrs. Faith” and “Mrs. Faith so-and-so did such-and-such!” It was like they all were still in school, or just assumed that this is what Faith DOES: that she always is, and will be, a peacekeeper, a caregiver, and a playmate.

It was so amazing for me to see them look at her sometimes: there was such a glow of happiness and affection in their eyes.

It was beautiful.

Faith is not entirely done with the school, though, since she’ll be doing various things, like interviewing prospective students, over the next week or maybe two. I, meanwhile, am teaching a summer school writing course for ONE student! Because he needs to pass this course to graduate with his fellow seniors, he’s pretty motivated and we’re having a good time. He’s by no means unintelligent, but was (like all too many seniors) terribly unmotivated most of the year. He is particularly interested in science and physics, so our reading and writing work is centering on scientific essays and ideas. My wide-ranging interests are coming in handy in this case, since I’m very interested in science and the scientific method as well.

The course is done this Wednesday, and after that I think I’m probably finished at the school. Then we will be packing, shipping some stuff back home, saying more good-byes, and mentally preparing ourselves to fly out of Cairo, perhaps not to return for many years.

It is a strange and sad and happy time.

Take Five!


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Originally uploaded by Lee Howard.
Faith and her kids take a rest from rehearsing for the wall-shaking “We Will Rock You!” dance number.

KG Annual Show Action Photo


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Faith’s kids in the midst of the opening “Stayin Alive” dance number. I wish I had a decent photo of the show-stopping “Barbie Girl” number. This one startled the entire audience with its organization, lightning-quick dance moves, and high-octane Mrs. Faith-inspired energy. I think everyone would have really liked an encore. (In this picture, meanwhile, you can see Mrs. Faith directing her students near the left-hand side of the stage.)

No Wonder Faith Cried


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Egyptian kids just might be the cutest in the world.

The Many Faces of Faith


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One of Faith’s fellow teachers put together this collage of pictures featuring the divine Mrs. Faith. The teachers in her school also voted on a series of awards and Faith won THREE: “best laugh,” "funniest,” and “most likely to freak out.” (Sounds like they got to know her pretty well!)

Faith and Lee at a Wedding Reception


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Originally uploaded by Lee Howard.
One of the teachers in our school got married on Thursday and here’s a photo of Faith and Lee at the reception. Now WHY do people sometimes try to disagree with me when I say that Faith is the photogenic one?

Faith and Some of Her Kids at Chili’s


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There were a half-dozen people trying to take pictures at the same time, so this one is not perfect, but it will do.

Faith and Her Parents Faith and Her Parents


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The impact Faith had on her kids and their parents is, I think, amply demonstrated by the turnout for her going-away lunch party. I’m so proud of her.

“Leaving?”, front


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Originally uploaded by Lee Howard.

“Leaving?”, inside


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Originally uploaded by Lee Howard.